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DNI BLACKLIST

Please don't associate with me if you closely interact with/support these users.
To clarify, these are exclusively for boundary reasons. I want to avoid these people and anyone who supports them/is friends with them, not start anything with them. I don't really care if you've had passing interactions with them or whatever.
If the reason is not already publicly known, I will not explain to you why these users are on my DNI list.

This is my personal DNI blacklist. It is different from my design/commission blacklist. If you're looking for that, [click here].

🡒dollieguts/dreamalgia
🡒Marrijuananaut/Any person with the username "neurot" who goes by the name Kyle.
🡒myunei (Block evades/Moves accounts frequently)
🡒bride/murderfolk (Changes usernames frequently)
🡒Atom/NSA/tamalife (Block evades/Moves accounts frequently)
🡒Sal/cherryguro
🡒phazed_

DO NOT INTERACT CRITERIA:

🡒Don't interact with me if you identify as a "fujoshi"/"fudanshi"

🡒Don't interact with me if you use and/or support terms like "sh*ta"/"l*li" (or indulge in it)

🡒Don't interact with me if you use and/or support terms like "c*ntboy"/"f*mboy"/"tr*p"

🡒Don't interact with me if you indulge in p*dophilic/inc*st content or defend people who indulge in it

🡒Don't interact with me if you're a "proshipper" or believe "fiction doesn't affect reality"

🡒Don't interact with me if you're a racist. This includes fetishizing POC.

🡒Don't interact with me if you're a transphobe, homophobe, transmed, TERF, SWERF, etc.

🡒Don't interact with me if you participate in NFTs, cryptocurrency, or other blockchain technology.

🡒Don't interact with me if you use drama sites/blogs like THdr*mas, k*wifarms, 4ch*n, etc. or just generally shit talk people behind their back. That behavior is unpleasant and I don't want it around me.

🡒I would really prefer you don't interact with me if you're "neutral" or "have no opinon" on "proship" and whatnot. Neutrality and being a bystander is something that adds to the problem and allows these types of people to continue to have a platform.

*If I myself do anything wrong, am following anyone bad, or have liked/RTed anything bad, please please inform me. I'm rather oblivious and can very often miss things and informing me helps me learn.

*I don't do callouts. I might boost callouts by others or tell my closer friends (because I know what they do and don't tolerate). But if it offers you any solace I don't have the energy or time to make them myself. I would much rather avoid business with the blacklisted person and move on.

Again, don't interact with me if you are a transmed or follow transmed beliefs. (And obviously don't interact if you're a transphobe.)
I firmly believe that people can present themselves however they are happiest with no matter their gender; Whether that be through their body, fashion, etc.
Trans and nonbinary peoples' bodies and expressions are extremely diverse. We are not meant to fit into some kind of binary.
There are no "requirements" to being trans other than just feeling like you are a different gender from your birth assigned sex.
You don't need dysphoria, you don't need to transition if you don't want to, you don't need to dress a certain way, you don't need to act a certain way.
If you disagree with these points, my content is not for you.
Go re-examine yourself and think about why you are so intent on pleasing cis people and re-examine why you feel the need to push your idea of gender onto others.

THINGS TO KNOW BEFORE YOU FOLLOW:

🡒I have and create gender-nonconforming trans male characters for myself because it's how I am most comfortable presenting.

🡒I'm disabled and offline most of the time. I may reply slow, please be patient with me.

🡒Almost all of my adopts are as ambiguous in gender as possible so the owner can decide.

🡒Do not use my work for icon/faceclaim/RP/D&D/kin unless you commissioned it from me.

🡒DO NOT buy my work if you intend to do any of the following:

Make a chubby design into a thin design

Whitewash a BIPOC-coded design. This includes lightening skintone, getting rid of BIPOC-coded hairstyles (i.e. Making a design with locs have straight hair), etc.

Detransition any clearly trans-coded designs/designs that are designated to be trans (i.e. removal of chest scars). Making a design non-binary/GNC is fine.

Furthermore, if I find you doing any of these things to my designs, I will blacklist you.

🡒I am EXTREMELY UNCOMFORTABLE about those who wish to emulate or imitate my identity, art, or designs. Slight inspiration is fine, but please dont imitate me/my style completely.